Sometimes it happens by mistake, a woman may still be in the juice, but in the eyes of other people she looks much older. Even if her face has already been to a cosmetologist and has known botex. Even if the gray hair on the temples is carefully painted over by the best colorist. Why is that?
What makes women older more?
There is no interest in the modern
It is not necessary to be a fan of Morgenstern and watch Tick Tok. But by grumbling, “but in our time there was no such thing, but now the youth is degrading,” everything immediately becomes clear. Young is no longer young.
You see… In fact, young people “degrade” at all times. According to those who are older. Nevertheless, the percentage of smart and not so smart subsequently turns out to be approximately equal. It’s only after a while that they begin to sigh and say, they say, in our time, the sun shone differently. It’s funny to hear how a generation that knows the Gaza Strip’s ditties by heart is shocked by the lyrics of modern songs)
But even if you listened to classics from the cradle, watched the right movies, dressed exclusively in prim things… Let others be different. At least because the phrases “but in our time …” and “what will grow out of these young people …” throw you a dozen extra years.
The kind of thing that can add years even at a young age. This is how the human stereotype has developed that grandmothers grumble, and young girls enjoy life and radiate a continuous mi-mi-mi.
At the same time, we can understand that the tendency to grumble is a character trait. And it does not depend on age. But we can’t do anything with the images that have formed in our head. Therefore, there is only one way out: if you want to look younger, stop babbling)
Posture and gait
From psychological to practical. By the way, the “traditional” signs of age-related changes depend largely on posture. The more evenly you can hold your back, the later wrinkles, sagging skin, a second chin will come to you, and that’s all that is associated with withering.
The gait is a little more difficult. For young people, it is flying. For those who have already known life, the gait becomes heavier, shuffling. Just because the joints are no longer the same. There are several ways to solve it: comfortable shoes, careful attitude to the feet and .. getting rid of excess weight.
Unfortunately, it also adds to our age. Unfortunately – because I understand perfectly well that not all weight problems are solved by a simple “have you tried eating less?”. But perception is merciless. Even chubby children seem older to us, let alone adults…
In addition, excess weight also affects how we move. And what kind of clothes we choose. Being overweight is many times more difficult to dress fashionably and modernly. Simply because it is much easier to find a cool thing in sizes 42-44 than in 52-54. And it’s just hard with him in the physical sense of the word. And people invariably associate the severity of managing their bodies with old age…
I will not say beautiful speeches about “you need to lose weight immediately”. For women who are overweight as a consequence of health problems, my ardent appeals will not help in any way. Let me leave this topic for a separate article and tell you what a lady in the body can play to look younger if weight loss is impossible for some reason?
It’s not so much conservatism, but rather devotion to some fashionable chips that were popular during your youth. Black graphic eyebrow tattooing, for example, hints to people that the lady is at least about forty.
Also with clothes. Here you can argue that fashion is cyclical. That leggings with strips were popular in the 70s and 90s. And they came back to us again. But, you see, these are completely different images. Then they were combined like this, now they are completely different. Then the shoes were with such a heel, but now it is completely different. Then a similar shade of lipstick was used in makeup, but with not such shadows. Fashion is cyclical, but not the same.
And if a woman gets stuck in the fashion of her youth, that’s it. At the same time, human perception has another unpleasant feature — it aggravates. It seems to us that 30 years ago was a long time ago, when mammoths were not hatched yet. And this very chip begins to add at least a little to an out-of-date woman, but more than it should.
But it is not necessary to wear only what is ultra-modern. Your own style is fine. Just diluting it with something fresh obviously won’t hurt. And you yourself will be fresher from this)
I wonder if you could add something to this list? What do you think makes women in the eyes of others older than they really are? Share in the comments!